“Don’ts” When Training Recall (“Come!”)

“Don’ts” When Training Recall (“Come!”)

In my last post I explained why what I call “Leading” is a more helpful obedience ritual to have mastered than recall (“Come”) when taking your dog offleash.

Still, “Come” can be a very useful command, particularly in various emergency situations. For instance:  your dog is disappearing into the woods; running toward a busy street; about to cross into a “No Dogs” zone; about to step in something gross or dangerous; the list goes on.

Below I lay out the two most common mistakes to avoid when training recall, and my tips to be successful.


The two most common mistakes 

Mistake #1:  Follow through

Your dog runs off after a squirrel, and you shout “Fido, COME! Come here right now!” Of course he ignores you, as you expected, and keeps on going. Or again, your dog discovers the remains of last night’s barbecue in the park; again you shout “Come here! I have treats for you – COME!”. Again he ignores you because his treats are better than yours.

In both of these cases, your dog hears you, chooses to ignore you, and — crucially — gets rewarded for disobeying. Why do I say rewarded? Because by ignoring you he gets to keep doing the fun thing. Therefore you’re conditioning your dog to be disobedient; you’re reinforcing that behavior, and instead of improving it will now get worse.

Mistake #2:  Punishment

You’re chasing your dog around the park for 20 minutes trying to leash him up. “Fido COME HERE! I have a treat, COME!” Finally he gives in, stops romping with his friends, and wags over to you. “Bad dog! Why didn’t you listen?” Or again: the same scene, except you say “Good boy!” and give him a treat; however you then clip the leash on him and drag him away, because you need to get home.

In both of these cases, you punish your dog for coming. In the first case obviously, purposely. But even in the second case, despite giving him praise and a treat. Yes you reward him…but then you also punish him, by leashing him up and walking him away! (If you want more info on this topic, look up the distinction between “positive” and “negative” punishment.)

Keeping in mind you want to avoid those two mistakes — you want to always follow through, and never punish — here’s an outline of my most popular tips and tricks for training recall, quickly and effectively.


The Calm Energy recipe

  1. Don’t say “come” unless you can make it happen. (I.e. “Always follow through.”) Some helpful tricks to accomplish this include using a long leash (say come then reel her in), grabbing the collar and backing up while saying “Come!”, crouching (this is non-threading and inviting to dogs), being fun, shaking treats, squeaking a ball, running the opposite direction.
  2. Once Spot starts toward you, encourage him with a “Good boy!” to mark the desired behavior. Too often people try to wait until he’s all the way done to give any indication that he’s on the right track.
  3. Grab Spot’s collar and praise/rub/treat. If you forget this, you’re liable to inadvertently train what I call the “drive-by” or “fly-by”: Spot grabs the treat and takes off, or simply whizzes past at an arm’s length, and though he came close, it’s no cigar as far as leashing up and having control.
  4. Release your dog after the rewards. This doesn’t just mean let go of the leash/collar (though that’s a crucial part). Use whatever “release command” you use when you tell him he can get up from the sit/lie down, when you tell him he can go outside/go eat, etc. (For my pack it’s “OK!”) You’re basically teaching your dog that “Come!” means a win/win situation for him: if he comes running to you he’ll not only get praise/pet/treats, but also will be quickly allowed to go back exactly where he was, and can continue doing what he was having fun doing in the first place.

This last point inevitably causes the following question:

If I can never say “Come” without releasing my dog back to wherever he was, what should I say or do when I really need him to come (and not go back)?

First of all, we try to build up to the emergency situations. Before your dog is well-trained, try your best to avoid situations in which he’ll be at risk hurting himself or others without the “Come” command. For example: when you get anywhere near a busy street or other risks, put your dog on a long (e.g. 15-30′) leash that you can grab/tug/lead in case of emergency.

Second of all, most of the time people think they need the “Come” command, it can and should (at least during the training period) be replaced with a more dominant command (e.g. Sit, Stay, Lie down, Git!, Leave it, Drop it, Off/Down..) or with a different motivator (Let’s go! Let’s walk!, Get the ball!, Go home for food!… etc.) Experiment with different leadership rituals that will allow you to save “Come” as a purely positive win/win scenario.

Third of all, and most importantly, after your dog is good and trained to jump with joyful obedience at the “Come” command, he’s started to trust that he’ll be released immediately back to the fun after coming and enjoying whatever momentary rewards you hold for him. At that point, you can now start throwing in recall trials where you don’t immediately release, but instead delay the release… or even just leash up and leave. Yes, in these trials/situations, you will be “punishing” your dog. (No matter how many treats or rubs you give him, it’s still “negative” punishment.) However, by this time you’ve put in a solid 1000+ win/win trials, so the 1/1000 slight negative punishment (i.e., removing something fun), shouldn’t make a dent in the mindset you’ve conditioned.


  1. Melissa November 16 at 9:29 PM

    Good !! I think I’ve accidently taught my dog not to come. Oops- today I will start over. Wish me luck :/

    • Anthony November 16 at 11:50 PM

      Good luck!!!!

  2. Wendy June 11 at 1:25 AM

    I have a one year old Westie and she isn’t brilliant with recall when there are other dogs to play with or new smells. Your advice sounds good so will give it a try. I live in England and cannot be put on your e-mail listing as I don’t have a zip code.

  3. Dog Training Collar May 18 at 3:58 AM

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  4. Lenda McCormick July 8 at 1:30 AM

    I have a female lab that barks excessively and goes to the door when people knock.
    What can I do to train her not to do that?

    • Anthony July 19 at 12:54 AM

      Interesting you pose this question in a post about recall. We do not want to say “Come” in that situation — it won’t work. (As you must have noticed!) We instead want to set boundaries, telling her DONT go up to the door in the first place. Replace that behavior with calm submissive obedient “Bed” command, and make sure to reward her with bellyrubs/treats and eventually release her up so she can go say hi and sniff the visitor herself. Let me know if this helps!

  5. Lila September 6 at 1:34 AM

    Hi Anthony,
    I have been looking for a solution for the first mistake you described (follow through)! I didn’t understand though what to do then.
    My case is: I have 2 male dogs (siblings), they are almost 2 years old, his owner passed away and we got them 3 weeks ago. They are great, (mostly) obedient, good on the leash, even off leash. I live in a big community place, hundreds of acres, but the dogs stay in the farm fenced area (1 acre – well, they escape to go find people if they gaps – they love people). I walk with them daily outside the farm, sometimes on the leash, sometimes off. When they are off leash, sometimes they run towards the turkeys, rabbits, ravens, and then happily run in big circles, just running. Never killed any of them, and I want them to chase the animals off the farm, so I don’t want to discourage them from running after them. And it seems healthy that they can run as fast as they can once in a while. They always come back somewhat fast (not when I say ‘come’ right after they start to run though, like you described – too much excitement – but after they ran for some seconds). I am unsure if that is okay, or if they should just run after something if I let them do it.

  6. Ghian March 25 at 11:10 PM

    Have a 7 month old Cane Corso. I’m not getting anything with her recall training. Will give a try. Thank you for the help.

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